Duped by my best friend

I have been the other woman for a year now. Before that he was my best friend for several years. We were both in dysfunctional marriages and I am now separated bit he is not. It has been a roller coaster of him being separated, moving back in, saying he feels obligated etc. last December he was fed up, said he was done and then in January at a counseling session decided to give it a donor die try. I have been through the ringer. When they get along he pushes me away, when they don't he pulls me in.

After this last time untold him I had to stay away from him because it can't go back to the friendship that we had before even though that's what he wants. I have always been his "rock" but now it's different I want him to leave her and now I'm beginning to think he never will and that I have just been a "crutch" or his "salve". To help him maintain his relationship with her. What do I do? Every time we break up he says he wants everything to stay the same except no sex but then we always end up back at the same place. I told him this can't go on, he has to make a decision

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Duped by my best friend

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Feb 09, 2012
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Time to start dating NEW
by: rudy

Leave this dude to resolve his marrital troubles.That means like no contact for a long time.Mean while you need to be dating other guys.That'll keep your mind off of your MARRIED guy.Tell the MARRIED guy you're seeing other people,he'll back off and go back to his wife more than likely they always do.Mean while you won't be wasting your efforts on the wrong guy.

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