Feel so stuck

by Candice Evans
(columbus ohio)

I have been married for 10 years. I have 2 small children and we bought our first house 2 years ago. I have had a off and on relationship with a married man for 14 months now. He said he cheated because his wife cheated on him, and I decided to cheat because my husband is very neglectful, emotionally and physically. He has been married for 14 years, has 3 daughters and said he only stayed because he didnt want his kids living without both parents at home.

Well recently his wife found out about the affair and isn't willing to forgive (even though he forgave her for cheating 3x). I don't feel guilty for their divorce because of her infidelity, they had many many issues before I even showed up. I want to end the affair but im addicted to this guy..when im with him my whole world seems at peace. I feel I love him and I worship the ground he walks on. We have split several times trying to work on things with our spouses but we keep coming back to eachother.

I just don't know what to do because if i stay with my husband i know i'll cheat again..im not happy. Idk what to do because of the kids and we both need eachother financially to a point. I feel so stuck

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Feel so stuck

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Apr 14, 2012
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mend or end your marriage NEW
by: Anonymous

Time for some serious marital counceling.You need to mend or end your marriage.Forget about the other MARRIED GUY.He will only complicate your life.You don't need extra drama.You need to focus on YOUR marriage.You cheating is a HUGE problem.Your husband has serious anger issues (You picked him remember).He needs counceling on his own.Remember two things never work Anger managment and drug rehab.My experiences w/ people in general.Good Luck, you're going to need it w/ all your problems dear...It's not impossible.Sounds like you need to do some soul searching....

Apr 13, 2012
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Be honest NEW
by: Anonymous

I hate cheating men or women. You don't deserve a genuine partner. Split and find your way or be honest and settle down.

Feb 09, 2012
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Better off alone than with bad husband NEW
by: roy

Sounds like you are not in love with your husband.Time for marrital counceling or time to move out.If you are going to cheat on him and you know this ,why keep wasting your time.Life is short ,find someone that'll treat you better and then you won't find yourself cheating.You won't want to cheat if he's a better man.Just remember what goes around comes around.

Feb 09, 2012
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Time to self evaluate NEW
by: ron

You say if you stay with your husband you know you'll cheat again.That's VERY selfish.Are you just using your husband for financial reasons.What ever the reason, HE doesn't need a cheating wife.Stop thinking below your waist line and be honest with yourself. Why would stay with a man YOU KNOW you'll cheat on.That sucks for him...

Feb 09, 2012
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You are stuck NEW
by: rudy

You are stuck .No point in making matters worse by cheating.You need marrital counceling,then figure out if you want to stay.You may already know the answer if it's financial not to mention the kids. So remember cheaters only muddy the waters.It'll confuse your thinking and turn all your decisions into a emotional roller coaster ride.Too much drama is not a good thing...

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