God Complex

by a
(new jersey)

Well that was his story i suppose i should have known better but for some reason i fell for him hook line and sinker.

Yes the story of me and my wife arent together we sleep in seperate rooms im there for my kid(one 17 now) we have no relationship yadda yadda.

Ive been with him for four years. We have gone away and been a lot of places done a lot of things. He spends a lopt of time with me when hes not working hes with me He does tell me he loves me that when hes kid goes to college hes leaving and we can be together.

The truth i know hes not going to leave why do i stay??? For me i think its the thought i cant get any one better. He knows and wants to know my every move where i am when im at work with my mom where ever. He calls me asking where i am. I have no friends he is all i have. He gets mad when i dont answer the phone. He accuses me of cheating on him ( i know funny right) every other day.

In the beginning he was so sweet but anymore hes mean puts me down and says the most horrible things to me treats me like crap has not much respect for me for us but then again why would he???.

I have been there for him through thick and thicker. He keeps telling me to move 5 minutes away from him but i havent. It has been an emotional roller coster. I spend a lot of time with him his wife doesnt call if she does she is toasted. But i think the more i have been with him the more i know i need to get away from him but i cant leave him.

Why do i love him??? i know hes been lying to me just recently i have caught him he claims not big ones but isnt a lie a lie??? he says he wouldnt cheat on me but hello hes doing it now??? Right hes god knows where with god knows who and i know now for its i have to end it.

I dont want to its going to hurt so so bad and i know he wont care maybe he will i dont know. Im not happy this has changed me i let him treat me like crap track my every move i let him control me and let him say jump and me say how high. but no more no matter how much you think love them is it really love???

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God Complex

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Dec 15, 2011
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to Dreamers
by: Joanne

Anonymous, (dreamers) You are on this site venting about we O.W. and telling us to get a life and these men are cheating YOUR husband because we let them? Its always easier to blame someone else for the issue that has begun in your home, whether it be because he is bored or you just have a mouth that castrates him everytime you open it, or he just is plain old not happy and gets his happiness with another woman O.W. your anger is directed to the wrong person, we owe nothing to you wives, YOUR HUSBAND does, we did not stand before God and Family and Friends and say I will keep myself only unto you, HE DID! there is an issue and its in your home with YOUR husband. OR anyone elses. I have been on the other side of this and felt just as you and the saying stands true "you dont know until you walk a mile in their shoes" I would have never seen myself doing this despised women that did this to me and my life, but they did not do it, MY HUSBAND DID! He was the one telling them that he loved them , he was going to leave , or he was staying for our son. And as convincing as he is to you he is to us. so all your anger, animosity, hate, and disgust , point it where it needs to be. I blamed all the women, but never put him out of my bed, never blamed him. I would call them and curse them out call them all kinds of names and even threaten them, which was stupid! If i ran her away there was going to be another and there always was or he just went right back to the same one.Reality is a bitch!I never made him pay for what he did. End result, he left me anyway, for ANOTHER WOMAN!

Dec 15, 2011
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to Dreamers
by: Joanne

Anonymous, (dreamers) You are on this site venting about we O.W. and telling us to get a life and these men are cheating YOUR husband because we let them. Its always easier to blame someone else for the issue that has begun in your home, whether it be because he is bored or you just have a mouth that castrates him everytime you open it, or he just is plain old not happy and gets his happiness with another woman O.W. your anger is directed to the wrong person, we owe nothing to you wives, YOUR HUSBAND does, we did not stand before God and Family and Friends and say I will keep myself only unto you, HE DID! there is an issue and its in your home with YOUR husband. OR anyone elses. I have been on the other side of this and felt just as you and the saying stands true "you dont know until you walk a mile in their shoes" I would have never seen myself doing this despised women that did this to me and my life, but they did not do it, MY HUSBAND DID! He was the one telling them that he loved them , he was going to leave , or he was staying for our son. And as convincing as he is to you he is to us. so all your anger, animosity, hate, and disgust , point it where it needs to be. I blamed all the women, but never put him out of my bed, never blamed him. I would call them and curse them out call them all kinds of names and even threaten them, which was stupid! If i ran her away there was going to be another and there always was or he just went right back to the same one.Reality is a bitch!

Jun 16, 2010
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the pain goes on
by: Anonymous

just had to coment..especially for the lady claiming to be the "WIFE..WOT THE HELL ARE YOU DOING ON THIS SITE THEN??you must hav worrys or at least suspect your own bloke is cheating!!!! you havent got a clue how these woman are drawn in to this situation,,by charming little bastards that are bored at home..we are good woman that made stupid mistakes..i to was like you,untill i allso was drawn in,something i would NEVER have seen myself doing..so b4 you start judgeing..check your own house is in order..again,i cant help but wonder what brought you to this site..ANYWAY...BK TO COMPLEX..SWEETHEART YOU HAVE ANSWERED ALL YOUR OWN QUESTIONS..THIS GUY TREATS YOU LIKE CRAP.because that wot keeps you dependANT ON HIM..MINE USE TO GET PARANIOD ABOUT THINGS..where the hell do these blokes get off..show him you are a strong woman,and you are worth alot more..move nxt to him...who the hell does he think he is..you know wot type of trash you are dealing with..he is a cheater..and will never be faithfull to anyone..dont waste your yrs..i got rid 4mths ago..now ime strong..not the faded wreck he turned me in to..goodluck to you..hope you do get out..believe me i truely understand..xxxxxx

Mar 15, 2010
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Dreamers
by: Anonymous

Dreamers u r. I am a wife this is how people get themselves seriously hurt. Why? U have nothing else to do with yourself but screw someone elses husband. All of u single women who are datin married men get a life. They have affairs cause you let them get a life.

Apr 28, 2009
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Geez these men are selfish!
by: Anonymous

WTF! These married men are just so selfish! Yes to think that these MM will leave his wife for the other woman is a little too hopeful because we'll get hurt in the end!

So guess what!? if he gets so jealous that the other woman is having a proper 'boyfriend' or just go out with other guy then GOOD!!! at least he can feel what we feel when we think of him kissing his wife!

Let him be in our shoes once in a while...!

Apr 17, 2009
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resposing
by: Anonymous

i know exactly like he is cheating with you right so why ask?? and then when u ask oh why wont cheat on me and he gets mad like im asking a dumb question like hello WHY WOULDNT YOU?? like im the first one u ever did this with??? not!! so he says he will leave but i must be nuts if i think that. the only one i ever cheated is MYSELF!!

Apr 16, 2009
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Sounds Just Like mine!
by: Anonymous

Oh my God your story sounds just like mine!

I also was involved with a married man who accuses me of cheating on him God knows how many times. It's funny because HE is cheating with ME on his wife! and why the hell does he care whether or not I'm cheating on him because HE'S not even willing to leave her for me (yet anyway, according to him)

Like, he is SOOOO jealous when I have a boyfriend but seriously! at least my boyfriend is single!

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