How can I keep him

I have been in love with a married man for a year, I'm 15 years younger then him - 25 and 40. His been married for 15 years and has a 6 year old and a few months old baby. He is a sales guy, we met at my office where he comes for business (he lives in NZ). His wife found out about us 8 months ago, he broke up with me at that time but came back few weeks later. He was promissing me to leave his wife after their baby was born. 4 months ago his wife found out that we were still together and kicked him out, she had the baby after that. Now he lives separetly, first few months we visited each other few times but in the past 2 months he paid for me to come and visit him almost every weekend.

I'm looking for a job in NZ, he does not want me to move without a job. When I'm there he does not see his kids as his wife doesn't want me to be with them. I think she uses the kids to manipulate him. I am madly in love with this man and he tells me that he has never loved anyone like that before,  I make him feel good and loved what his wife has not done for years. He loves his kids and he is a wonderful and loving dad. All going well but I'm scared that his wife will use the kids and manipulate him back. Please give me advise how I can keep this man, I can not imagine living without him, I want to be married to him and have a family with him. 

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