I am the other woman

by Ayaba

I am the other woman. I am in a loving relationship with the man and I am sure he loves me as much as I love him too. This man is finding it hard to leave his wife for a reason best known to the two of us. She might hurt him or even kill him. However, he is not hiding our relationship away from either her or anybody. I already have a child for him and he has been very responsible for the upkeep.

He sees my child as his happiness and any attempt to ask him to go may be suicidal. Although he is not with us everytime, he does not abandon us. He calls all the time to attend to our welfare. He is sincere and responsible, the reason for staying with his wife. What matters in life is happiness hence no need to judge we, the other women.

A lot of us are Angels, carrying other people's burden on our shoulders, deriving joy in making others happy and giving hope to the hopeless. There is nothing in life to make it a do or die affairs. All is vanity. lol

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I am the other woman

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Apr 14, 2011
by: JEAN

sorry to say,my husband cheated on me for how many year for the same person but when i found out that he is involve to other woman,the same time he stop and he choosed me he throw the girl like garbage and he promise me not to do it again.you have to think and feel if this man he really loves u or he used you only.

Oct 13, 2010
by: Millie

Hello Ayaba,

From Sydney Australia.

I am so sad to hear your story. If this man is so responsbile, why is he with you in the first place?

I don't meant sound harsh, but these men hide behind their marriages like cowards. If he really wanted you, he would be with you.

He is not very resposible to bring a child into the world that cannot be loved and nurtured by both parents.Please get away from him as soon as you can.

Kind Regards,


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