moving on

by j
(syd)

I HAVE JUST READ YOUR STORY .. AND EVERY THING YOU SAY IS SO SO TRUE .. I HAVE BEEN WITH MM FOR 4YRS AND I HAVE TRIED TO END IT. IT NEVER HAPPENED .. BUT NOW IT HAS ENDED AS HIS WIFE ENDED IT FOR US .. YES... IT HAS BEEN ALMOST 3WEEKS AND THE FOG IS LIFTING AND IT IS A RELEAFE .REALLY . AS HE WAS LIKE A DRUG TO ME AND WE COULD NOT STOP. NO WE WERE NOT LOVER .. I WOULD SAY .. WE HAD A REALIONSHIP .. AND YES FEELING GOT INVOLVED ..SO NOW .. I READ YOUR STORY .. IF I HAD ANY ADVICE FOR ANYONE??? THINKING THEY CAN KEEP FEELINGS OUT OF IT .. NO NO NO .. AND YES RUN LIKE HELL AS MM DO NOT WANT YOU AND WHEN THEY ARE COUGHT OUT .. AND HAVE TO MAKE A DECISION ... THEY WILL ALWAYS CHOOSE THE WIFE .. AS ITS EASIER TO STAY THAN TO LEAVE .. THEY MAY NOT LOVE THERE WIFE.. BUT THEY LOVE $$$$ AND MM ARE GUTLESS WHEN IT COMES TO LEAVING .. AS I SAID ITS EASIER TO STAY AND WEATHER THE STORM THAN TO SAIL IN TO A NEW OCEAN ..MEN ARE COWARDS. THEY WOULD RATHER TELL THE WIFE .. LIES TO GET HER TO TAKE HIM BACK. SO IF YOU ARE A WIFE THAT HAS BEEN CHEATED ON .. DO NOT BELEIVE A WORD HE SAYS .THEY WILL TELL YOU ANYTHING SO YOU WILL FORGIVE THEM. THEY LIE TO YOU AND THEY LIE TO THE OTHER WOMEN .. . YES .. IM AM A GUILTY PARTY .BUT UNTIL YOU HAVE BEEN IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS ..AS I WAS NEVER NEVER SOMEONE THAT WENT OUT OF HER WAY TO DO THIS .. IT JUST HAPPENED ....

DONT EVER THINK YOU CAN STILL BE INCONTACT WITH MM AFTER YOU BREAK UP .. AS THE HURTING JUST STARTS ALL OVER AGAIN .... ITS GOING TO HURT A LONG TIME .. YES FOR BOTH WOMEN INVOLVED .. AND THE MAN .. WILL RETURN BACK TO A NORMAL LIFE .. BECAUSE THE WIFE LETS HIM .. SHE LISTENS TO EVERYTHING AND WANTS TO BELIEVE SO SO BAD .. THAT IT MEANT NOTHING ..DONT BE FOOLED .. YOU WANT TO STAY .. YOU NEED TO HEAR THE WHOLE STORY .. AND HE WILL NOT TELL YOU THE TRUTH .. TRUST ME .. THE OTHER WOMEN WILL .. THEY HOLD THE KEY TO IT ALL

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Oct 07, 2010
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Bravo J
by: Millie

Dear J,

We should start an MM anonymous in Sydeny!

I relate to everything you said, except the bit about the wife finding out.

None of us means to get emotionally involved. In my case I was dying of loneliness as my husband had been ill for 7 years and no longer recognised me. I literally had NO ONE to support me or keep me company.

YOu tell your story well and I know you are still finding it difficult as I am. I have been free for about 3 weeks also.

My theory is that these men will try to get you back because they need an ego boost.
Don't give it to them


Keep thinking this is a positive thing. Maybe somebody on high was looking out for you and set you free!

Oct 07, 2010
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by: Anonymous

Wonderful line - "Easier to weather the storm than sail in new waters".

It is indeed a drug and I made the mistake of trying to stay in touch as "friends". Big error, he just kept trying to get me back.

He didn't want me, he just needed to know there was an open door for him. I could've been anyone.

Thank you so much for your support and empathy.

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