No Longer the other woman
I wanted to put my story out there simply because all you hear about the other woman is that the married man never leaves, or that we are homewreckers. Let me tell you the married man i was having a affair with i have know for about 10 years. when he was in highschool he got his girlfriend pregnant, his parents are straightedge so when this happened he thought if i marry her i will fall in love with her and love her, well they were together for 12 years had two kids and he wasnt happy, he tried leaving once, felt bad and tried making things work for the kids and i started working with him about 3 yrs ago, i was engaged with kids of my own and i was in a emotionally abusive realtionship, come to find out later i found out why, my fiance was chaeting on me. "the married man" my now boyfriend, was trying to hold things together finally after i found out that my fiance cheated on me he came up to me and said whats going on?
i broke down crying and told him what happened, he was pissed. Later on down the road i asked him the same thing. Whats wrong? he said i moved back here to try to work things out and i realied i was trying to force myself to love someone who was always just a friend to me. we ended up having a affair.
we planned to just have fun and said we never wanted anything serious, well after the first time we had sex, which was VERY passionate unlike having sex with anyone else, we fell madly in love. i always thought he would never leave his wife, well after a few short months about 3 he moved out of thier place, i left my fiance. Now we are happily together (still secret) cause im in the process of finding another job, but it does happen they do leave thier wifes.
we didnt plan for this to happen and NEVER did i think i would have a affair. I am SOOOOOO HAPPY and wouldnt trade this for the world.
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