Real Life Stories from “The Other Woman”

The other woman but really not!!! 
I am 40 years old. I was married myself for 20 years and am now getting ready to file for divorce. I stayed for my daughter (wrong reason but my choice). …

Is it cheating if you cheat on your married man? 
I am 31yo. My MM and I met 4 years ago at work. I was married and so was he. I have 2 children and he has 3. We fell hard for one another and the first …

Waiting for him 
Hi, This is Sonia . I had posted my story in this blog and got support from my well wishers! It was very comforting for me bcos I had not a single soul …

The cheater should not be questioned, its the one willing to encourage it. 
In all honesty, why would a person willingly go out with a married person? Because they don’t really give a hoot about 1) commitment 2) other people’s …

Want to stop this affair 
Hi, I have been in this relationship with the married man for a year now. He is much older than me. We were close family friends and I had a special close …

ripping off the plaster (hopefully!) 
I have known my boyfriend for 6 years, and knew he was married. we got to know each other and started playing around two years ago while trying not to, …

lost 
i have been married for 10yrs and this is the third time my husband has cheated. The first time it happened i didnt no anything about it but he told me …

Does he love me? What does he want 
Hi am a 21yr old women i got married in April this year, only to findout that the man i`m married too is already married and he never told me not even …

DAYUM 
I have been seeing a married man for about a yr now and I have been knowning him for about 15yrs or so. I have always wanted him from day one but I knew …

Dating a married man is breaking my heart  
I have no clue how I ever got involved in this nightmare. I had not a shred of attraction or romantic interest in this man who is 18 years older than me. …

please help me 
hi I met him at work. he’s married with 2 kids and I was having problems with my husband. we did not have sex but it was a series of on and off .. …

RUN – AS FAST AS YOU CAN !!! 
I am the other woman. 2 years passed by…. He destroying my life. Destroying my existance, my self esteem. My suggestion to whoever read this…. …

He Toldl Me He Was Getting a Divorce 
I met him online. I had broken up with someone a couple of months previously, and I was determined not to fall into my pattern of grieving for a year …

So many directions… 
I have been seeing a married man for over a year now. He is married and has 3 middle aged kids. I am also married and have 2 smaller children. I am so …

I am so torn, hurt and tired… 
We met at work and although I hadn’t noticed him much for 2 yrs, somehow last year, I did, and we forged a friendship. I’m married, so is he. He is handsome, …

finally had the courage to end it 
How did I end up in as the other woman? I had no self-esteem. I was divorcing after 16 years in an emotionally abusive marriage to a serial cheater, alcoholic, …

If I could turn back time..  
He was sure to be mine. All mine. We were bound to be one of the 1% of the couples that make it to a relationship AND have a successful relationship at …

Empty Love 
Yes, I am the other woman. I was married for 18 years with 3 children. My husband cheated on me. I was devastated. Heart wrenched with pain. I t took …

NOT SURE WHAT TO DO? 
i am a 37 y/o married man with 3 kids. without going into all the long details, i was married young at 21 and married my wife because she got pregnant.i’ve …

Married man for over 6 years now I know it’s wrong but…….. 
Well I’ve been involved with MM for over six years. It all started when I was getting tyres on my car and a man being served was smiling at me. E wore …

Yes he’s married.  
i am a single young mum, i have a 3 year old son, i am officially still married but have been seperated from my husband for 1.5 years. i was forced to …

Breaking up 
I am writing this as I feel it may be therapeutic. When you are involved with a married man you don’t really have anyone non-judgemental to talk to. I …

Does he love me? 
I have been involved with a married man for over 4 years now. I knew that he was married when we first met. He has had over 26 girlfriends, and he has …

my story being the other woman 
iam a 24yrs old nigerian having an affair with a 42 yrs old man,i met him when i was 19 yrs old jst got out from a sour relationship.we started as friends …

Torn in two…. 
I met him online. We started as friends, but even then from the moment we met there was something about one another. I wasn’t interested in him. It was …

Blinded by the merried man 
My name is Bontle and I was seeing this guy for 2 years. So in October I found out I was pregnant, when I told him he dropped the bomb that he was actually …

Not the only one! 
I am on the tail end of a fifeteen month old affair: never in my life have I felt such pain: everyone says walk away but the damage a lying cheating married …

Gamer Sex Mistress 
I met a married man through an online multiplayer gaming console. We had a good conversation and started to frequently play with each other. We talked …

I have been dating a married man for two years! 
Thank you so much for this site. I have just finished a two year relationship with a married man. I am just about to turn 40yrs old and thought I had met …

On/off and trying to stop but not really wanting to 
Ive been with my MM for over a year. I’m a MW. He’s 42 and I’m 36. It’s on and off a lot since christmas because his guilt gets to him. He loves his …

Bad Medicine 
First, I would like to thank all the ?other women? who stepped forward to share their stories. This has been really helpful for me to get my blinders …

10 weeks and CELEBRATING! 
It has been ten weeks since I last laid eyes on MM and 4 weeks since he stopped sending me emails. I am celebrating! It was difficult in the beginning. …

Follow up to EYES OPENED. 
The M.M. whom I dumped 6 weeks ago has tried to re establish contact with me several times. Yesterday he sent an email to my prime email address… …

Eyes Opened 
Hi Everybody , I have posted before and since finished with the M.M. about 6 weeks ago. Today I received an email. He asked if he could send …

i was the other woman but not anymore 
I was with a married man for about three years. I knew that he would never leave his wife even though he constantly complained about her. He was using …

Trying to be strong enough to end it! 
I have been the other woman for over 2 years….and have been leaving in a fantasy world. He has had me completely wrapped around his finger and I know …

So I find myself also in this boat 
Never did I ever think I would see myself in this situation! Two years ago I met a guy who I felt instant attraction for and clicked with. Of course …

I dont know what to do 
Hi everyone, I have been with a married man for 2 years and 2 months so far. I met him through school and he was not my classmate. He is only 4 yes older …

he got caught 
he is not married but in a 20 yr relationship, his kids are all grone and out except for his 13 yr old son. he lied to her, she called me and left a message, …

Confused and need help… 
Ive been with a married man for a few months now and am in a relationship as well. I am with my partner for 5 years now and we plan on getting married …

My wait 
We met a year and a half ago. I was still married at the time, yet my husband and I were considering separation. I answered an ad for sex and that is how …

I need your help. I dont know what to do. 
Two months ago I plucked up the courage to accept the fact that I was not happy in my current relationship which I had been in for 6 years. I knew it …

What happened AFTER my married man’s marriage, was over- and I remained to console him. 
The short version of my story is that I’ve been dating a married man for over five years. He had been married to the same woman, with two college aged …

A question for somebody out there. 
I have recently broken off a relationship of 2 and a half years. It was passionate and intense. My husband was terminally ill when we met and I was …

moving on  
I HAVE JUST READ YOUR STORY .. AND EVERY THING YOU SAY IS SO SO TRUE .. I HAVE BEEN WITH MM FOR 4YRS AND I HAVE TRIED TO END IT. IT NEVER HAPPENED .. BUT …

My dream became my nightmare 
I am in a relationship with a married man. It’s been going on (and off) for 20 years. He is my high school sweetheart and what I thought was my soul …

Leaving is devastating but staying is heartache 
As long as I can remember, I hated cheaters; in fact it made me ill when I heard of a man cheating on his innocent wife. Once a cheater, always a cheater …

being lonely most of the time.. 
i am currently involved with married man for 3 years now and i just give birth this year for my beautiful son….but i am not hearing any words from him..he …

I’m at a loss. 
I’ve been dating a MM for about 3 months now. At first it started out as a one night stand. We work together and everyone from work went out to a bar. …

The Other Women and Loving It 
You may think I’m crazy for saying that, but oh it’s so true. I met this man at my job one year after starting to work there. We met talked on the phone …

Was Both Woman  
Its not easier being ethier woman was in a reationship with a cheating man altho he was not married he was in a long term realtionship no kids together …

21 Years Younger Than me 
Plus he is a Cop (Detective) and A Baptist Youth Minister …Wow. You know, you just don’t wake up one morning and say, Hey, I am going to sleep with a …

Not Every Affair Is Bad 
I have been married to a man who had brin surgery 8 months after we married. He became vegetative but eventually he is very debilitated but stabe. I have …

Gone 
I met my MM 18 months ago at a work conference. He told me he was separating from his wife after Christmas (2008) and from that day on we texted and emailed …

I was so sure 
I started dating a married man 2 years ago. Since I had been on the receiving end of that kind of pain when my ex husband cheated on and left me for another …

Will I endure the pain to spare his family’s pain ? 
11yrs. Wow. so many years of the most wonderful friendship I have ever had. Such a compassionate man. Absolutely everthing in common. We were not once …

I hate myself. 
Yes I have been the other woman, for 5 years I was the other woman. I wanted so badly to believe he loved me and not her. I wanted so badly to believe …

ime free…… 
just to say to every woman…i to was with a married man for 2 years, if he had had his way it would have gone on and on..course..he is getting the VERY …

Don’t know how to leave… 
I’m so lost! I don’t know what to do!! My story will be a little long so please don’t mind… The first time I met this MM was around Nov 2006, he is …

Men lie 
We were both married and I was ready to leave my husband for him. This man was a Marine and I was Navy. He would jog to my BOQ room almost everyday where …

OMG I am in Idiot 
So yeah I thought we were different. He was married and I was married, neither one of us were extremely happy nor we were unhappy. We just came together, …

Older woman dating younger married man 
Seriously this is insane, I am 36 and he just turned 28 and we have worked together for 4 years when we started talking more and I sent an email for whatever …

Facts of being with a MM – PROVEN 
I have broken up with my MM for almost 4 months now, and believe me, it has been hard, VERY HARD, but I am proud of myself. My situation has proven …

I’ve worn both pairs of shoes and neither were a perfect fit! Otero v. Aragon 
I just got out of a relationship of two years with a married man. When I read the first few sentences of this article I was amazed at the excuses they …

Honest (to me) Married Man 
It all started out as a holiday romance, he was honest about his wife and he said he would never abandon her at this point in their lives…he says he …

In the middle of it all 
Let me begin by saying that I take responsibility for being in this situation. I went to him after receiving what I thought were very strong messages …

In the middle of it all 
Let me begin by saying that I take responsibility for being in this situation. I went to him after receiving what I thought were very strong messages …

The Other Women- true pain 
I met him over a year ago online…We met & talked all the time about everything including our marriages & basically how unhappy we both were. I fell …

My heart is broken and he feels nothing 
We met at work, I was a trainee in a serious relationship with a boyfriend and planning to get married to him by the end of the year. A month in a new …

My story of being the ow  
I’ve been with my married man for four years.When we first met I was married so it was different for me it was just for fun. Then after I say a year me …

God Complex 
Well that was his story i suppose i should have known better but for some reason i fell for him hook line and sinker. Yes the story of me and my wife …

Its here and it hurts!! 
I have been seeing my married man a little over two years.. He was my boss at a cargo company, he and i started by working together he was the best i have …

Want my heart Whole again 
OK, First I would like to say I am so glad I found a site that I could Tell my story on and not me crucified for it. I am a current O.W. I am actually …

No Longer the other woman 
I wanted to put my story out there simply because all you hear about the other woman is that the married man never leaves, or that we are homewreckers. …

15yrs lost 
I’m really scared of admitting to the world that I’ve been involved with a married man for 15yrs. We met at work when I was a very young & naive 23yr …

My Husband lives three different lives 
My husband and i had been together off and on for about 5 years. he moved to california from atlanta to be with his new girl and their child. yes, he had …

I need courage to get out….. 
I am 41 years old. been having a love affair with married man for almost 2 years. he is 56 yrs old – 15 years older than me. I met him through social function. …

Been There, Done That, Got the T-Shirt AND the Scars 
Married men, even if they are in unhappy marriages and profess their undying love for you, rarely leave their wives, and especially so if there are children …

Dating a Married Woman 
I can relate to what others are writing, but I am a man seeing a married woman. In fact, I just sent her an email telling her to NOT contact me again. …

Im not the other woman! Im the loving give it all husband! 
Im Ron and here’s my story I married the love of my life nine years ago. we had known each other for over 38 years!!! ever since we were kids.she was not …

y its unfair to women to knowinly go after peoples husband 
my husband works in belize and i live in trinidad i know that he is cheating on me but i dont know with whom, we have two kids and i cant understand why …

Forbidden Love 
Hey guys. I have quite a story to tell… I’m 17 years old, and a senior in high school. Last year, I took a class in high school and found myself crushing …

what i never expected 
So I bumped into this guy I had known for 20+ years-ironically 2 weeks before my husband of 13 years was set to move out- I told him what was going on …

Never say Never 
I remember telling my college roomate dating a man engaged to be married, if he cheats on her, he will cheat on you. I was always the wise, smart one. …

Dating Married Woman – Yes, I relapsed 
So this is Shawn again and I relapsed, contacted her again and basically picked up where we left off. Now here I am today, feeling horrible, wishing I …

He’s Back… 
I dated a married man almost 25 years ago for 3 years (I had sex with him the morning of his wedding.) He did leave his wife, but it didn’t work out between …

hurt 
i have been seeing a married man now for 18 months..he is a very kind and considerate man…i have feelings for this man very deep feelings and i think …

I’m tired of this, too weak to get out!!! 
I have been in a relationship with a married man for 10 years, out of these 10 years, he moved out 5 years ago saying he had enough, he was done and was …

Finally done with this married man!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 
I was with a married man for about 2yrs and he finally got caught. He kept on drilling me about loving him and letting go of my heart and I finally did …

i’m the other man 
I’ve been seeing a married woman for 8 months now.She’s been in a unhappy marriage for many years.Her kids have all moved out and her and I have been …

My Baldheaded Affair! 
This man is everything I want and feel I need.I am a single woman….he is a married man.We met at work.Started out as associates and then we became closer …

HIs Woman for Over 20 years 
Your right this experience is quite devastating! I was his..over 20 years; his to a man who has been a serious relationship with another woman (NOT MARRIED …

Soulmates 
I met my soulmate 25 years ago. We were each other’s first loves. Our relationship lasted three years and then due to family issues, it ended, sort of …

Agony  
I met the mm I was seeing through my family I was separating from my spouse and somehow he knew so much about me through my uncle. He pursued me and …

Confused 
I have never thought that I would become “the other woman”… I have been with my husband for over 16 years since university. I have always thought that …

My heart is broken 
OK I have posted twice on this site one to tell my story and one asking a question. Now I have to come back and report that I recently found out that my …

Miss Wannabe 
Hello: I’m 21 years old… And here is my story… I’m from a little place called Puerto Rico, when I was studying at High School I got …

I AM THE ONE  
I am the other women. I do not mind being the other women and I do not care if he leaves her for me. I know she was there when it started so who am I …

I am the other woman 
I am the other woman. I am in a loving relationship with the man and I am sure he loves me as much as I love him too. This man is finding it hard to leave …

DIDNT TELL ME HE WAS MARRIED AND PLANNED A BABY WITH ME!!! 
We met almost three ago. As always everything in the beginnig is bliss. Spent weekends together and nights. He lived an hour away from me but still came …

Feel so stuck 
I have been married for 10 years. I have 2 small children and we bought our first house 2 years ago. I have had a off and on relationship with a married …

Why do we hide 
I have read so many stories and Today I came across a few that were saying to gain some control back by seeing other men and not letting our MM be our …

My best friend 
Me and my boyfriend were breaking up he had hit me and caused alot of damage,he moved in with my dad.And since they are both crazy they fed off each outhers …

Why me? 
Why me? I have always been the good one. Born and raised in church and the daughter of a former pastor. I wasn’t looking for love, but it found me…so …

does he love yu?? 
its a simple formula…. break up with him.. refuse to see him unless he moves out and is truly seeking divorce…. then you will know. what …

being the other guy, can be draining 
Been seeing MW for 2 yrs now.She claims has been with verbally abusive husband over 25 yrs now.Is not in love with him.Still living with him.We get together …

I found his picture and his wife under the bed 
I have been the other woman, been going out with this guy for like 4 months and he’s been married to his wife for 3 years. Separated for 6 months (so he …

21 Weeks Pregnant with the Married Man’s Child 
As with so many of the stories, we worked together. We never intended to start an affair. Same story but of course different faces. The affair began …

Attraction! 
We met 15 years ago. My boyfriend worked with him. We were all friends. My self, my boyfriend,him and his girlfriend. We were attracted to each other then, …

7 years of double life 
I am in a relationship with a devoted husband and a loving father for 7 years! Wait! He’s not my husband, nor the father of my children! My relationship …

I Am Woman Still Moving On After A 4 Year Relationship With a Married Man 
Somehow, I think my story is unique – and am realizing it probably is not! I am quite attractive, sensual, even at 62. I met Rick who worked in a local …

Confused 
I know this guy. I knew he was married from the beginning. I paid him no attention…we were just cool. My birthday came and he bought me some designer …

Duped by my best friend 
I have been the other woman for a year now. Before that he was my best friend for several years. We were both in dysfunctional marriages and I am now …

Confused…but now I see the light 
First off, I want to state that I have been no *angel* in the past 2 years, but let me explain. I was hospitalized about 2 years ago for bipolar illness …

He was my bestfriend… 
We’ve been friends since highschool. Even after highschool, we have gotten closer. He has been part of my family and they absolutely love him. They would …

Please help me 
Compared to many of you who have shared your stories on here, mine may not seem as painful because my affair with my MM didn’t last for very long. But …

His wife his partner and me – once a cheater always a cheater 
He’s married 2 grown up children plus a partner of 16 years and a lover – me. An ex teacher he has a tight timetable to fit us all in his wife gets the …

in relationship with MW 
Have been seeing MW for 2 yrs.Doesn’t look like she’s ever going to change things.She’s been married for 25 yrs.Right out of high school.I don’t even …

His wife knew it already Not rated yet
Hi, I am simply a mistress or other woman, we’ve been in this relationship for a year now. He was caught by his wife already even called me through phone. …

Tried To Be Just Friends Not rated yet
He and I met in the military and dated for over a year; we had to fight for our relationship during that time because having a serious relationship in …

I thought I was smarter than that Not rated yet
I am a professional, intelligent and beautiful woman. Was with my husband for 17 years, since I was 21. I have never thought that there would be any possibility …

two years Not rated yet
Hi don’t wanna mention my name but I’m twenty seven bee messing with a married man for two years he’s lived on and off wit me for a year sometimes he would …

Moving on from the most painful heartache Not rated yet
Do you feel used and rejected but loved and care for at the sametime? Here’s my story- I have met a man who seemed to penetrate my soul, we are both married …

rrrreally?yur married? Not rated yet
online dating is kind of scary .. but when i met him i loved him from the start.. there was nothing about him that i didn t like…he seemed like …

SO confused Not rated yet
My story begins with a marriage where my husband wanted me to have sex with other men to fulfill his fantasies I really thought about it a long time and …

And so it… Just ends. Not rated yet
How does a married woman – leave the serenity she’s found with her… Married boyfriend. It brings tears to my eyes to think of the weakness shown, yet …

Did he ever really care? Not rated yet
Can’t believe this has happened to me. An intelligent, independent , financially secure ,divorced after 12 years of marital hell very attractive woman …

he is now caring than ever we just move in to our new apartment AND also he has being given names to the unborn baby. Not rated yet
When i found out we were expecting a baby after a year into our relationship, I was nervous to tell him but he was actually really happy about the baby, …

I’m the other guy Not rated yet
Been having an affair w/ a married woman for 2 yrs.She’s been w/ her husband for over 25 yrs,kids all grown and moved out.He’s been the verbally abusive …

I’m hopeless Not rated yet
I met him three and a half years ago on MyYearbook (now called MeetMe). I knew right away that he was married but I wasn’t looking for anything but friendship. …

Work Affair with a Married Man Not rated yet
When I met him I didn’t think that he was even cute. He was not really my type. I’ve been so confused on “my type” considering I was married to my ex …

am i waisting my time with him? Not rated yet
Ok so i met the father to my unborn child not longer than two years ago! When we started dating everything was all roses n rainbows,till the time he decided …

My worst of times. Not rated yet
I had an affair with my boss. For four yrs, I paid for everything, the hotel rooms, I gave him money when his wife threw him out. He rented a house across …

still dating the married guy Not rated yet
Well first of all I will start by saying im 27 years old I have been dating this man for 3 years he’s 43 although we have been 3 years together I can really …

Left and happy…… Not rated yet
I knew this man from work for about a year. We started talking and texting everyday. I knew he was married and I actually used to gve him advice from a …

lost and confused Not rated yet
I’m 21 and have been seeing my love for about 7 months. Its been rough but at times I’m completely content with the situation (mostly because he is with …

I just want out Not rated yet
I met my mm over 20 years ago,we had an afffair for nearly 2 years his wife found out and moved him out of the state.April of 2008 we ran into each other …

I was the other woman, not sure if I was ready to leave Not rated yet
Well my Story is a bit different, However i can’t say that I don’t feel the same. My man wasn’t Married but he was in a 6year relationship. We met at my …

Pressured Not rated yet
I had a seemingly happy marriage. I have the best husband ( still married, separated). He is/ was very thoughtful kind loving man. Always telling me how …

Obviously not a woman but… Not rated yet
Look I’ve been cheated and I’m a bloke. The way all these stories I’ve read insinuate that cheating is something that a male would most likely do. And …

No future being the other guy Not rated yet
I’ve been involved with a married woman for 2 yrs. I’ve come to realize there’s no future in waiting for her to leave her so called dead end marriage.I …

The affair in the office Not rated yet
It started about 10 months ago, when he first joined my company just right after his honeymoon. I was the first person he spoke to in the office and he …

You’re asking for heartbreak Not rated yet
Been there done that .Was seeing a married woman for almost two years.Of coarse she never came close to leaving husband.Said she had abusive husband,ect.Just …

You’re asking for heartbreak Not rated yet
Been there done that .Was seeing a married woman for almost two years.Of coarse she never came close to leaving husband.Said she had abusive husband,ect.Just …

Falling for a man living with his girlfriend – Help! Not rated yet
Hi – I met a man about 4 months ago through mutual friends. We hit it off instantly and share a wonderful connection. He told me straight away that he …

I finally did it Not rated yet
I’ve never posted on a board before. This is so hard for me and I take full responsibility for my actions. I am the other woman. I am a cheater. Just …

Trying to get un-hooked Not rated yet
Hi, I am a 30 year old single female who found herself as the other woman. I know exactly how I got lured in. That validation is one powerful thing. …

I finally did it Not rated yet
I’ve never posted on a board before. This is so hard for me and I take full responsibility for my actions. I am the other woman. I am a cheater. …

Lunch time love Not rated yet
I have known this man for over 20 years. I met him at work and at that time we just became very good friends, although I always knew he had other designs …

no idea  Not rated yet
Hi This is a first for me but I dont understand my own mind at the moment and I cant /won’t speak to my friends. I worked with a man many years ago …

The Other/Other Woman – The Wife! Not rated yet
I can understand your dilemma if someone has lied to you and you don’t know they are married, but if you are seeing someone that you know is married, you …

Trying to let go Not rated yet
I have been seeing this married man for about a yr now and he has become the love of my life but I know its time to let go. We have known each other for …

Its not an easy ride. Wouldnt do it again. Not rated yet
Our story started 30 years ago. We dated in highschool and I had always known he was the one. After highschool we went out separte ways and lost contact …

What I thought was destiny turned out to be his game Not rated yet
I met him at work and of course I guess it’s the usual story of how I was everything he ever wanted in a woman, that I was his dream come true…It tiik …

Im in love with the man of my dreams, but he lives with his girlfriend Not rated yet
My name is Michelle, I met the man of my dreams 8 months ago. We met through a mutual friend. It was love at first site for me. We had a connection he …

Hurting and handled in the wrong way. Not rated yet
I have been seeing a married man for about 8months now and he is 9yrs older than me. I have known him for about 16yrs but we just reconnected about 8months …

Never Good – Regarless of the Situation Not rated yet
Our affair started 5yrs ago via on-line dating site. He contacted me, his profile pic (left hand holding wine glass w/wedding ring) I had no desire to …

My 3 Year Living Hell Not rated yet
It started when I was 20. A very good looking and charm guy moved down the street from me, along with his wife and teenage son. He was older, 33 at the …

he told me he wasnt married Not rated yet
i meet this dude named javier and we started talking and hanging out then we started moving to the other bases like sex but before all of this he was wearing …

Total scum bag Not rated yet
Thank goodness I found this site and know I’m not alone. I met SJB 4 years ago, on the internet (of course!) I was single and he told me he was, I …

I Never Thought I’d Have an Affair, but…… Not rated yet
I’d just transferred to a different office and I had yet to meet my new manager. Then one day, someone introduced me. And WOW! It felt like a ton of …

Moving On Not rated yet
I met my engaged man 7 months ago while out at a nightclub. From our first phone call, he told me that he was engaged with children. Said he never married …

It’s over Not rated yet
I’m a married woman who has fallen for a married man. He’s amazing, he makes me laugh, smile and think. But he has three little kids, one of which is a …

I was the one cheating Not rated yet
It has been the worst 11 yrs of my life. I was in a long term relationship and became pregant. We did not marry but lived together and worked together. …

widow caught in a nowhere relationship Not rated yet
When I met the man I truly fell in love with was when I became a widow. It had been 1 1/2 months after my husband had passed away. I loved my husband and …

I Did It Not rated yet
Hi everyone, well my story begins almost 3 yrs ago, I met my MM online. We became good friends, then almost right away fell in love. I knew from the off …

I am invoult business with him too. Not rated yet
I was stupidly in love with him after I hart his childhood life. He come from very difficult family back ground while I was a good life.I didn’t not know …

How can I keep him Not rated yet
I have been in love with a married man for a year, I’m 15 years younger then him – 25 and 40. His been married for 15 years and has a 6 year old and a …

I started an affair with a married man Not rated yet
I recently started an affair with a married man, KNOWING he was married before we even met face to face (we started talking online). I was looking for …

What am I to HIM? Not rated yet
I have been with my married lover for almost 3 years now… we lived together at the first year of our relationship.. he was working overseas so am I. …

My biggest Mistake Not rated yet
All started when I started to take tuition with him…he was my teacher… He invited me for lunch…after pondering I accepted! Lunch…cinema…we even …

Hes My Best Friend and I can’t let go Not rated yet
My story is simple really I met him when I was 18 so 13 years ago we met in college. He was my best friend and I didn’t see that he loved me more that …

I can’t belive it! Still in shock Not rated yet
I have been involved with a man on and off for eleven years. When I met him I know he was single. Things seemed to change within the last three years. …

The pilot’s wife Not rated yet
I met a pilot online. He was married with 2 kids.I had a secret love childwhile he was married. He ran out on me initially and I had to put him on child …

Doubts about us Not rated yet
So the other day I wrote on here…I told the story of how we met online and in real and began dating, how he broke down and told me he was married after …

Talking myself out of this… Not rated yet
know that this is wrong. I’m reading all the stories, tyring to convince myself. But I just have to say. Yes he lied to me, told me he was married almost …

A Lesson Learnt.. Not rated yet
I am a 25 year old married. I was in relationship(no sex) with a guy who loved me so much. I was not very much interested in him as he was not good looking …

Broken Hearted and Numb….. Not rated yet
It was 2001, I had attended this public event where there were many people. I was single and looking. I was enjoying the view when all of a sudden out …

HELP Not rated yet
I am 28 years old. I broke up with my ex-boyfriend around this time last year. We were together for 3 1/2 years. It was a roller coaster ride for the first …

Sancho Not rated yet
I’m a 25 year old who’s been involved with a 40 year old man who is in a common law marriage (20 years) for almost a year. For the first 5-6 months it …

The love of my life , well i thought. Not rated yet
I had been with the father of my children since i was 14 , higschool sweethearts. He always cheated on me as a teenager and then some after we had our …

shattered heart Not rated yet
well first off let me start by saying i am happy to have found this site and here goes. I recently found out that the guy who i have been dating since …

My Story Where do I begin.. Not rated yet
I have been the OW for nearly 4 years now. I met him online. We hit it off started as friends. One day we realized we had feelings for each other and it …

Clueless  Not rated yet
At one point in time I was very blInd and clueless. To say the least I was down right dumb. The summer of 1999 I met this young man going to school …

Been involved for 21 years Not rated yet
I have been involved with a married man for 21 years (I am married as well). It started when I was fairly young, in my mid twenties……just for fun….turned …

MARRIED MAN WHOM ARE AWAY FROM THIER WIF Not rated yet
I START DATING THIS MAN ONE YEAR AGO IN PARIL OF 2010, IN THE LAND OF FORGIVEN FRUID THAT NO ONE ALLOWED TO SPEAK WITH OTHER SEX UNLESS THEY ARE MARRIED. …

My Husband Not rated yet
I was coming home from work when I entered my bedroom to see my husband having sex with my Transgender sister. She was sucking his balls. I was so anrgy …

crushed  Not rated yet
I have been dating a married for almost a year now. He proposed to me about 3 months ago. He is always telling me that he is leaving her.They have no kids …

Where does it start and where does it end, it is love isnt it? Not rated yet
Dating a married man isnt really dating, he is married, it is more like sneaking around.Dating means going to a movie,dinner,someplace public,but wait,you …

HE’S ON THE PROWL AGAIN! Not rated yet
HI Everywone, Since the affair ended 4 moths again I have been visiting some dating websites. I am single and a free, very loney woman. I had a contact …

I think I may be the STUPIDEST OW EVER!!!! Not rated yet
One year, 3 months and several break-ups to make-ups later…and he’s still with her. Well, not physically, of course because they had to move to his mothers …

Have you ever? Not rated yet
Have you ever loved someone,more than yourself? Have you ever thought that person loved you as much? Have you ever made excuses for why he was still with …

in denial Not rated yet
I’ve been seeing a married man for almost 6 yrs. I can’t say dating, because we have never been out on a date. The longest time I have spent with him were …

He liked me for me Not rated yet
I am young and single. Some may say single by choice, I say single because Its hard for me to connect with someone and when I do its hard to sustain that …

The Almost Other Woman.  Not rated yet
About 2 years ago I met him at my work and he’s my supervisor, but when we met I wasn’t even interested in him, he initiated everything. He was single …

I thought “forever” would have been longer. Not rated yet
Ok here it is and Ill try to sum it it, After 22 Years of marrage youd think there waas somthing real there right? Well apperntly not. We had the whole …

What was there between them.? Not rated yet
I am 20 tears old high school girl.I met an impressive man(26) from our college 9 months ago. As we were both international students studying abroad we …

He was my ex before he was hers but she can have him (or better yet I hope she gets rid of him too!) Not rated yet
My ex came back into my life after 10 years. I had split up with him originally because he had a drug and alcohol problem. There were no issues of infidelity …

Free after 2 years and 4 months! A long Affair and a long story. Not rated yet
I’m 63 and the man I was involved with is 69. Maybe we are older than the average to have had an affair… I’m not sure. My husband was in the last …

Married Man Syndrome Not rated yet
When I met him, we were associates, and he admitted he was married. Later, he fabricated a divorce. I wasn’t involved with him, so I never gave it a second …

Seeing my married Ex-Husband Not rated yet
I am been seeing my married first husband for 1 1/2 years. We were highschool sweethearts and married very young. We were only married 18 months, and divorced …

LOVE IS………….HARD Not rated yet
Okay it all began when me and a friend decided to prank call this man and we didnt think it would turn out this way i was the one who talked to him but …

I don’t want him to leave her. Not rated yet
I was married for 25 years. Widowed too young. He has been married for 20 years. After giving him 2 fine children, his wife began drinking when the …

Hurt  Not rated yet
I met a man at work, he is a wonderful charming and honest man. We both have problems in our marriage. Although his was a bit different from mine, it …

Will I Die of a Broken Heart Not rated yet
I think this is an exception to the rule…I met him in 1981. He had just come back from a trip around the world. He had completed his Masters at University. …

Online Disster Not rated yet
I am a MW. Met a MM on Facebook, about 2 1/2mths ago. It began with emails, web-chatting, texting, and a few phone calls. Things heated up instantly with …

My Life Not rated yet
15 years ago I was involved with a married man. I was very much in love with him and he with me. Our relationship lasted about a year before I decided …

Both Married – im his PA, what a cliche Not rated yet
The first day i met him was my interview, i liked him immediatley and the feeling seemed mutual. I knew it spelt trouble. The MM: Married 5 years with …

I see a married man every now and then Not rated yet
I meet this man about seven months ago,He is a nice guy the hold time I spent time talking to this man he never said anything about his wife not even mention …

I was blinded by him Not rated yet
The bottom line is, these relationships rarely work out.. I told myself over and over that my situation was different, that me and him would beat the odds.. …

17 years and still counting Not rated yet
What can I say? It’s been 17+ years, on and off, living near one another, then worlds apart from one another, and then almost next door to one another, …

Stupid Girl Not rated yet
My story begins years ago and I won’t bore with all the details. The root issue here is self worth. Whether you are the woman being cheated on and you …

the scarlet letter Not rated yet
I’m 19 years old my story could shock many people. I was 16 years old when i met this man and his whole family. He is a former pastor in a church,I know …

my married man story Not rated yet
I have been seeing my MM for a year and a half. He has been married for 8 yrs, no kids. We were all friends before this started. We were hot and heavy …

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