I met my soulmate 25 years ago. We were each other's first loves. Our relationship lasted three years and then due to family issues, it ended, sort of like a real Romeo and Juliet. We both moved on and married other people and had families, during that time, we kept in touch, but very casually.
I always wished things had turned out differently for us and he felt the same.
Two years ago, my marriage fell apart. We began keeping in touch more regularly and spoke on the phone everyday for the next six months, but did not see each other.
Shortly after, our relationship became stronger and it was hard to be apart. We started seeing each other more often and even went on a couple vacations together.
His wife only knew we were talking but he told her he still had feelings for me. During this time, things were difficult because we were doing everything in secret for the sake of his family and that was very hard for me because I was single and felt like I was always second in his life. My family and friends know that we see each other, but I am a phantom in his life.
About a month ago, he moved out of his house but still wanted to keep our relationship a secret. Still not being very available to me and feeling like he was not filling me in on things that were going on at home, I asked him if there was a chance he would move back home and he couldn't give me an answer. I felt as though I needed to know where this relationship was going and if we were going to finally be able to share our lives together in the open.
Our therapist suggested we take some time apart to figure things out. It's only been a week but I have this feeling he moved back already. He won't tell me because he said we aren't supposed to be in contact now. I am left in the dark now as to what is going on with his situation and am feeling so hurt and frustrated.
I have to wonder if this time apart was a mistake because I don't see how this will help our situation.
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