The Other Women and Loving It

by Glenda
(AR)

You may think I'm crazy for saying that, but oh it's so true. I met this man at my job one year after starting to work there. We met talked on the phone a whole lot, got to know one another. Found out that we had a lot of the same interests so we moved forward. To make a long story short, we had a relationship for 3 years. We both were careless on our jobs, we just seemed to click. We fell in love with one another. He did leave his wife for me and we are very happy together and he's doing a very good job helping me raise my child.

I hate it when people say "oh, that women took that man from his wife" well I didn't ask him to leave home, he loved me like he said he did and wanted to be with me and he did just that. We have been together 4 years and things are fine with us. You can't make another person do anything unless he or she is in sort type of danger.

And not all this "cheating with a married man" end up with him doing the same thing with you. If he /she isn't happy at home or with any situation get out of it if you can. I figure thats what he did because he said he wasn't happy and he bailed out. Yes, he was married to her, but that doesn't mean you can't find love in another person. So with that being said there are married men or women will leave home if they truley love and care about you.

So good luck. I'm very happy and he's happy and thats all that matters............

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The Other Women and Loving It

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Dec 19, 2011
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these people oar off there hookup
by: Anonymous

listen if you and him were so important together and wanted to be together then why didnt you wait till the marriage was over??? why in such a hurry? if it was destined to be ? it would be. why hurt the other person in it ? thats what you have to live with.. and how dare you blame it on the other person and your poor cheater wasnt getting his needs met and his life was unhappy... so i guess you better be on your toes at all times to make sure your marriage is good and hes happy cuz he will go looking for it somewhere else. maybe at the grocery store never know? boy you got a job ahead of you . maybe you shouldquit your other job cuz this is going to be a full time one LOL

May 25, 2011
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WOw
by: Anonymous

I'm happy for you. This site has really helped me understand more about my own personal story. I realize that we are more of emotional relationship than a physicial one. And this story gives me a little more hope. He's leavin her, it wasnt a long wait like it these stories, I hope its for the best. if what you say is true..i hope my ending is as good as your..

Dec 02, 2010
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PURE IGNORANCE
by: Anonymous

u sound very ignorant!...what makes u so SURE this man wont leave or cheat on u?...women are always backstabbing one another and for u to sit up here and say ur loving it is very self centered and dumb! u and him hurt that woman and PLEASE BELIEVE KARMA IS A BYTCH & SHE'S COMING FOR UR A**!

Aug 14, 2010
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there's happy ending for an OW
by: C. B.

Indeed a MM can leave his wife and go to (even marries) his OW still how often does it happen? I'm happy for the 2 stories here and also for my mother. The latter in a same situation years ago. Only my father's wife at the time did stuff that truely hurt him emotionally and very deeply that he made his choice. So yes! it can happen.

Jun 23, 2010
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hopeful...
by: Anonymous

I have never in my life felt a connection like this with a man... and yes, he is married! We connect on so many different levels it is almost creepy. What I love about him though is he doesnt talk badly about his wife. He simply states why THEY are unhappy and dont match... while WE... DO!!! We've been talking on the phone and talking deep for years but in a physical relationship for about 7 months. I have a feeling time with his wife is coming to an end SHORTLY. I cant help but look up websites to observe statistics and warning about our future relationship. NONE of it sounds like us... until now. I completely understand this story and am not only hopeful but CERTAIN my relationship will turn out to me similar. Thanks for sharing!

Jun 14, 2010
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Wow. This is a Great Story !
by: Gorgeous Green Eyes

Wow. There have two married men in my life that I KNOW I WOULD BE with this very day IF things could have turned out differently.....This kind of certainty only comes but a few times in one's lifetime.....

GOOD LUCK!

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