Want to stop this affair
I have been in this relationship with the married man for a year now. He is much older than me. We were close family friends and I had a special close relation with his wife. They have two lovely kids.
I am married too. My husband is really nice but has his flaws.
I really care for my husband and may be I want to be with him if he does. I donno if he loves me anymore.
We have our disagreements in the marriage which led to this step.
This Man has been trying to convince for 2 years that he has feelings for me and I kept telling him that since we are both married it is not possible.
Meanwhile my frustrations grew and I was a complete emotional wreck.
I was extremely vulnerable when I Granny passed away and could not share with my hubby because of our distance. This man always emotionally available for me gave me a lot of care, love and attention. slowly I started bonding with him. I didnt realise when this whole thing changed into a affair.
His wife knows and his family knows. He says he will marry me and leave them.
But I dont want that to happen. I want his wife and kids and the family together.
I know she wants to keep her marriage and I want that for her too. I have lost her in this whole deal and regret it very much. Even at this time I feel like hugging her and comforting her.
I don't know how to end this affair. He appears to very attached to me and says he wants to go any limit to be together. But I dont want to. I cant risk it all for this. I cannot hurt everybody for this.
Please can someone talk to me about this. because I have no one to talk to.
Thanks a lot if you ave read this. Please let me know
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