what i never expected
So I bumped into this guy I had known for 20+ years-ironically 2 weeks before my husband of 13 years was set to move out- I told him what was going on and he told me he had been seperated for 1 yr. He texted me constantly for a couple weeks until I gave in and had sex with him. Then very little contact for a few weeks. I continued to contact eventhough in the meantime I discovered that he was anything but seperated. He was exciting= a flirtatious relationship that went way back, a biker and member of an mc club, but also- a good guy with a good job and his own business. Incredibly interesting, insightful, and romantic-great sex(i wasnt climaxing though)He would constantly tell me about his troubles with his wife and I was happy to listen-then I decided-I had suspected all along that I was being played and wanted the truth- I didnt care if this was a fling but he was making me feel like it was more- So I told him- DONT BULLSHIT ME- he immediatley went on the defensive and said he wouldnt hurt me=now I havent heard from him in 2 days-So it kinda hurts-but I think I did the right thing-nip it in the bud-it has only been 2 months and I know I can do better=I just really thought we had something- just before I told him to tell me the truth we had the best sex I have had in years-very close and sensual-I guess it was the best thing I could have done-before I fell to far- It is the hardest thing ever to be the other woman=The men who do this are professionals and have no hearts. If in fact he is walking away because I called him out I found out the truth before I made a real mistake- Lesson learned dont ignore your intuition...but hope for tru love always
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