Yes he's married.
i am a single young mum, i have a 3 year old son, i am officially still married but have been seperated from my husband for 1.5 years.
i was forced to give up my job when i had my son as he has had serious health problems. so i dont work. im on benefits-which i hate. i have always worked since the age of 11 when i got my first paper round. i dont like being stuck at home. im lucky to be here as i took 3 overdoses in my sons first year of life as i couldnt cope with my sudden change of lifestyle, and the demands of having a critically ill baby in hospital for the first 4 months of his life. life has been tough.
then Mr Married came along! i didnt know he was married to start with. we have been seeing each other for just over 1 year now.
he is helping me get my own business started up, which i financially couldnt afford to do without his help but he is offering me my only hope of getting back to work as i can do it from home! he is paying for my website to be built, he is paying for all the initial stocking up costs, he is literally doing everything for me which i am very grateful for. in total he is spending about 15k on my business. which he wants to run with me. we are planning to be a partnership as he has a strong interest in what i do. this is my DREAM, to have my own business.
But yes he is MARRIED.
i HATE that he is married, i have cried so much these last few months as i hate being the other woman. but he keeps throwing me little glimpses of hope saying he wants to be with me, and that he is going to leave his wife because he loves me more and he cant imagine his life without me. but he is scared to break his wife's heart and its finding the 'right' moment. there is no 'right' moment for finishing with your wife!!
and deep down i know he is never going to leave her! i cry because he makes me happy, but i cry so much i want to end it with him and move on as i need someone to love me and care for me full time. but then i cry at the thought of all my business dreams disapearing with him.
i really dont know what to do.
i want to be able to provide for my son, i want him to be proud of his mummy because she works hard and isnt on benefits, but to do that i have to suffer being the 'other woman'. i cant cope with either... im trapped and either way im unhappy. but i would rather be un-happy with future prospects, then unhappy with no future prospects. so i have to stay with this married man.
please help me.
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